You’re beautiful. No matter what you’ve done in the past, you have every opportunity to show the world how beautiful you really are.
You are perfect.
For me, a stranger, please never change.
We all have our ups and downs, but it will get better, for if it is not better, it is not yet the end.
If you ever feel worthless, just remember, someone out there does care, and they always will. No matter what state of mind you are in, this is the truth.
Hate your appearance? Think you’re not good enough? Keep reading, please. Well first of all, I love you, and yes, I think you’re one fucking beautiful human being. No, I can’t see you, no, I may not even know you, you’re probably a complete stranger to me, but I don’t care, because you are all fucking beautiful. Take a look at yourself, I don’t mean take a 2 second glance, I mean stand in front of your mirror and really look at yourself. Pick out 5 things that you like about yourself, your hair, your smile, your heart, anything at all, because trust me, you’ll find something, think you can’t? Look harder, because every single living person IS beautiful. You’ve probably said to yourself a million times “I wish I was perfect” well tell me, what is perfect? Who decided that having certain qualities about you is perfect & not having them isn’t? I don’t care what you have, or what you don’t have, you’re all fucking perfect to me. You all have individual qualities about yourself that make you who YOU are. STOP hating yourself, STOP picking out everything that you think is wrong with you, because there’s nothing, I promise. Walk around with that beautiful smile on your face, be happy being YOU! & no, this doesn’t come easily, but if you look inside yourself, I promise you will see beauty, because every single person has it. I love you all. Thinking about ending your life? Don’t stop reading until this gets through to you. So you’re in a position where nothing seems to be going right for you & all you can think about is how much better things would be if you left? Left for good, no coming back. Well, I know 100% that you’re wrong. You probably don’t want to listen to what I have to say right now, all that’s on your mind is how nothing will ever change, well let me tell you something.. A year ago, I was exactly where you were. I was thinking the exact things that you’re thinking. But I realised, taking your life, doesn’t help anyone. Your family will sit in your room every single day crying, blaming themselves, were they not good enough parents? Your bestfriend, who once spent every single day with you, now spends her days alone, thinking what she could’ve done to be a better friend to you, all the people around you, will ask why, what did I do wrong? LIFE GETS BETTER, I cannot say that enough. So stay strong, wipe away your tears, and do something that makes YOU happy. Because trust me it’s true when they say “good things come to those who wait” So you want to kill yourself? Because noone cares about you. Your family hates you. Right? No. Your parents walking in your room in the morning to only find a dead body. They’ll try their hardest to not think negative, and to just think that you’re fooling around. Then they’ll start shaking you. Why aren’t you breathing? They’ll be broken. Tears. Many tears. More tears than you ever shed. Was it them? Were they the reason you did this? More tears. Pain. Every day. Every night. Every single second of every day. Guilt. More guilt. What about your bestfriends? They’re not going to care. Right? No. What’s the first thing that will go through their mind when your principal comes in and tells the class that you’re not alive. While your bestfriend sits there in tears. That girl that you’d smile at but never talk to? She’s now crying. The boy who used to kick you under the table just to annoy you? He’ll be shocked. He’ll be devastated. He’ll blame himself. What about your teacher? Thoughts crossing her mind. She’ll question if you did it because she didn’t make school comfortable enough for you. Pain. Devastation. All in one. Who organises your funeral? Who has to go through your stuff? Clothes? Notes? Those few older girls who used to give you daggers at school? They’ll feel regret. They’ll blame themselves. See, if you killed yourself today, you’ll never know what might of happened tomorrow. You’ll never know because you’re dead. Plain dead. Not breathing. Not alive. Just dead. Your family hates themselves for it. Your bestfriend then falls into depression. Tears. Tears. More tears than a river. All because you killed yourself because you thought noone would care. Right? You are loved. By many. Someone right now is thinking of you. And right now, I’m thinking about anyone who has thought or is considering suicide. You are beautiful. No matter if you’re black, white, homo-sexual, tall, short, overweight or anorexic. You are beautiful. You want to kill yourself? Think about it first. There’s no coming back. And I promise, if you do it, you are not only hurting yourself, you are hurting many. You are creating more tears than you led yourself to. You are making everyone miserable and making them all feel guilt and pain. Never will they feel whole like they used to when they had you. You are beautiful. And you are never ever alone Virgin? Never even had your first kiss? Never done anything sexual? Keep reading. Who cares? When you have your first kiss. When you lose your virginity. Don’t fall under the pressure of society. Feeling worthless? Boy, do we know that feeling all too well. Well, you’re not worthless and you are the complete opposite to worthless and guess what?You’re worth it. And you better start believing it, because it is nothing but the truth. I know it, your friends know it. You parents know it, your whole family knows it. Yes, sometimes their actions seem to prove otherwise, especially your parents but you have to understand that they only want what is best for you, so they get angry, so they yell at you, so they make you do your homework. They don’t do all those things for no reason. When you’re feeling worthless, remember:Remember that you’re not, believe that you’re not. I need you to believe that you are not worthless. You are here for a reason and you just need to find that reason. Don’t be too hard for yourself, love yourself for who you are. Don’t worry about what other people think. Forget about their opinions on you and your life. You’re a beautiful person, you are but you just need to see that within yourself. Never feel like you’re not good enough, because believe me. You are. Never feel like you’re worthless because you are worth it. Never let someone put you down, never let someone bring you down. Never let someone in close enough to make you feel like you’re not worth anything, because the truth is. You’re worth everything. I know, I get it. Sometimes you just feel like you’ve fucked up and you’ve fucked up big. but you know what? Learn from these mistakes, turn all these negative things in your life into something positive, look at the world from a different perspective. If you choose to see the world as a beautiful place, it will turn into a beautiful place. If you choose to see it as a dark bottomless pit, then it will turn into a dark bottomless pit. So if you see yourself as worth it, you will start to feel worth it, and you should because that is the honest truth. You don’t need anyone to tell you that you’re not worth it. You don’t need anyone telling you are worth it, because you are. You are amazing. You really are but you just don’t see it, let’s hope one day you will see it. No one deserves to feel like their not worth anything..
Why does it matter if you’ve never kissed someone?
Why does it matter if you’re over the age of 18 and you’re still a virgin?
Well, I can tell you one thing: It doesn’t matter and it will never matter and some day you are just going to have to accept that fact if you already haven’t.
You know that it is going to be special. You know that it isn’t going to be with just some random person. You know that when you have your first kiss with that person, you are going to remember it. It is going to mean much more to you, than you think. So what? Most of the people around you have kissed someone. Why does it matter? That is their business, their life and not yours. No one said you had to follow other peoples foot steps. You don’t have to kiss someone to feel loved. You don’t have to kiss someone to feel wanted, to feel needed. Sometimes it can feel that way. But it’s not how it is, trust me.
Lose it to someone special, lose it to someone who actually means something to you. Don’t just do it because you can. Because you want to, because you feel left out. There are so many young female and males who are sexually active for all the wrong reasons. If you have a boyfriend or girlfriend who has lost their virginity but you haven’t and he/she says that they want to. Do not do it if you are not 100% sure that you wish to lose it. Don’t be scared that they’re going to leave you because you won’t have sex with them and if they ever did leave because of that reason. Then you know that person wasn’t worth it. Never do something that you don’t want to do. Never lose your virginity because you’re scared that they’re going to leave you. Don’t do it for them, do it for yourself. When you are ready. They’re not going to force you to have sex with them and if they do when you’re not ready. You walk straight out that door and don’t look back.
You don’t have to lose your virginity by any age. Be proud that you have never kissed someone, be proud that you have never had sex. Be proud that you are a virgin. If so society judges you, fuck them. Society can’t tell you to do shit. Don’t let society and the people tell you how to live your life. You don’t have to have sex to fit in, you don’t have to kiss someone to fit in. You don’t need to have sex to get friends, nor kiss someone. Why should it matter? This is your own personal business and no one elses. Never let anyone, force you to do something you don’t want to do because you might regret it. Wait, wait until you find the right person. Then it’ll mean something special, a lot of teenagers especially nowadays just do it because they can. And you know what the bad thing about that is? They regret it, because it was with the wrong person for all the wrong reasons. So be proud of who you are today, love yourself. Most importantly, don’t fall under the pressure of society.
